In every case, pain had been the price of admission into a new life. But this admission price had purchased more than we expected. It brought a measure of humility, which we soon discovered to be a healer of pain.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 75
Anyway, this is the beginning to a new section of Muller's book. The section is entitled Consecration. I am not quite sure what Wayne is after yet, but the first little chapter is about mindfulness and holiness. By this, I think Wayne means that Sabbath is...
...a sanctuary in time when we consecrate our loved ones, our yearnings for peace, our prayers for strength and well-being for our children. We consecrate them, we en-holy them, with our mindfulness, gratefulness and care...We are not blessed because we are wealthy; we are wealthy because we bless.Throughout this little chapter, he speaks of time, the great American commodity. Taking time and making time to be grateful is key. We have to remember our loved one. We cannot assume them. We have to be mindful of one another. That they are with us is a gift, a great gift that needs our attention...our remembering.
So, what is his little exercise? Well, confession. Yep. He suggests that we find a way to go to confession. I'm very interested in Megan's take on this exercise. I think I get it. And that is why I included the quotation from AA this morning. Humility is part and parcel of mindfulness. Attentiveness is difficult to many because we ourselves often come to the fore, our own issues, pains, concerns, embarrassments. So we need to tell someone about them. Wayne uses this culturally laden word "confession" to say that we simply need to make a practice of telling people about our lives, our struggles. This, potentially, can teach us humility. And such humility can lead to "proper mindfulness" of others.
Well, that's the connection I am making.
Links to Megan's and Cristopher's posts
Posted by tripp at July 16, 2007 06:40 AMMy response is up. It involves a one-syllable expletive beginning with F...
(but it only has three letters. whew.)
Posted by: Megan at July 17, 2007 11:31 AMHow well you contain yourself. ;-)
Posted by: Tripp at July 19, 2007 08:25 AMQuite! And thank you. It's good to be back.
Posted by: Tripp at July 19, 2007 11:40 AM